There really is a rabbit-hole and I have fallen into it and found myself in Wonderland. This is the land where “so many out-of-the-way things had happened lately, that Alice began to think that very few things indeed were really impossible.”
One of my New Age-type of friends was quite excited when told of my new granddaughter. “She chose you!” she exulted. You see, this friend believes that souls get to choose who they want for parents on earth, and also, apparently, who they want for grandparents.